Doorways

I love reading lots of blogs, but I especially love Redpeffer and her writing, and I also discovered The Reading Residence last year.  These great blogs have teamed up to run a new linky call The Theme Game, today is the first week and the theme is Doorways.

Now I love taking photographs, especially of buildings, even more so of churches.  Just one of my ‘things’.  I can get lost in the history of it all, what, when, how, where?    I was trying to decide on which particular photo album to descend, which story to unravel.  Then I decided on a different tack.  How about a story that involves a journey through different doorways?  So here it is, my story of doorways.

So I start at the beginning of my doorways journey.  5th September 2009, one rather pregnant me, and my Dad.  It’s my wedding day, second time around, this time actually in England, this time with family and friends in attendance, this time with my Dad giving me away.  I love this photo, taken outside the first of many doorways that day, my front door.  I love my Dad’s expression, he doesn’t say very much, ever, but it’s all on his face that day.  Love you Dad.

DoorwaysI wasn’t meant to be 6 months pregnant on my wedding day, this wasn’t the dress that I was buying!  I should have been having a dress taken in, not one made from scratch, to expand as I did!  I had to have this made when our ‘bump’ decided to be conceived very much quicker than I’d envisaged!  Anyway, that’s a whole different story. Back to doorways …..

Doorways number two on my journey that day, sees Dad and I walk through a church doorway.  It’s the wrong church in so many ways!  It’s not our local church, it’s not the church we’d booked to get married in, not the church that has such a family history with Daddy P’s family.  The vicar forgot to mention when we booked the church in January, that it would be closed for repairs from the end of August until December that year.  She finally remembered to tell us in June.  Flights had been booked from Spain, Reception organised, hotels booked, invitations printed.  By then I was pregnant and VERY hormonal.  We had a number of other churches we could pick from.  We picked this particular village church, we liked the feel of it, it has a wishing well outside, it was a lovely church, just not the right church! It didn’t have bells either, she forgot to tell us about that until the rehearsal.  Uum. Doorways, are so much more than just openings!

DoorwaysAs we entered this doorway, my oldest friends little girl said ‘Mummy, it’s Cinderella!!!’ I will remember that moment for all my days.

So I entered doorways with one man, one wonderful man, who has never let me down, always been my hero, and I left with another.  One who is not quite so perfect as my Dad.  One who has no concept of time, one who cannot get his work/home balance right, but one who does care, who doesn’t lie, who doesn’t pretend. Doorways to a new beginning, a new name! DoorwaysDoorways leading to a new chapter in my life, leaving my past behind me, looking forward, wondering what the future would bring.  Walking through doorways with Daddy P by my side.

There was one great sadness to our day, Daddy P’s father , aged 91, had died in July that year.  Until December 2008 he’d been in remarkable good health really, active, full of life.  He was so looking forward to seeing his little boy get re-married, he was so looking forward to having a new grandchild.  As regular readers will know, we subsequently named Monkey after him, when he arrived in December, when bump was a boy!

There was someone missing from certain doorways that day.  A doorways photograph that should have included Daddy P’s father as well as my parents.

DoorwaysI’m not actually a great one for having my photo taken, I’m a control freak really.  I like to be in charge, I like to be the one behind the lens!  I had to accept, that for one day I let others click away, take the shots.  Doorways with stories to tell, doorways that saw us covered in confetti, doorways that witnessed laughter, lots of laughter that day.

DoorwaysDoorways to the future. Doorways to marriage, and future motherhood.  Doorways to a new life and to the unknown, doorways to adventures, hope and happiness.

What do Doorways mean to you?

Redpeffer The Theme Game

 

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I'm a Mum in my late 40′s with a 7 year old son. I had a busy life in Export Sales before my Monkey came along, but decided to become a stay at home Mum once he arrived. Now I enjoy writing my own family lifestyle and travel blog. sharing the adventures that we have as Monkey makes his journey through school. We have a cat called Brewster who makes appearances and I’m a mad Ferrari Formula 1 fan, so that expect to hear about as each season unfolds. We love reviewing toys, games and books and would love the opportunity to look at anything that fits in with our family lifestyle. We are always out and about and offering an insight on the places we visit, with a passion for nature thrown in for good measure. If you like what you read please leave me a comment, I love to hear from people, and always try to reply. Enjoy the read.

47 thoughts on “Doorways

  1. Despite the little hiccups along the way with the church it looks like it was a perfect day. And the Cinderella comment is sooooo lovely and perfect! 🙂 lovely theme, signifying the start of the next phase of your life too x

  2. Such a wonderful post. I loved walking with you down memory lane. The Cinderella comment is absolutely fabulous, and despite it not being the wedding that you’d imagined, so lovely to see such happiness shining through on all of the photos. Thanks for joining in with #TheThemeGame x

  3. I loved reading your ‘doorway’ post.
    I am getting married in July and it really moved me, espically the entering one door with your father & leaving with your husband. And who couldn’t love the Cinderella comment! You looked lovely! Sx

  4. What an absolutely lovely post. I enjoyed reading every word. I love the photo of you and your dad and you looked wonderful-your friends little girl was absolutely right. Thank you so much for linking with #TheThemeGame Oh, and thank you for the compliment too 🙂

  5. Aw! The Cinderella comment brought a tear to my eye! You did look absolutely beautiful. I had a one year old in tow when I got married to hubby No. 2 (the current one!) and when the registrar asked if anyone had anything to declare he blew a raspberry! Little Monkey! Nice post for the Doorways linky. X

  6. What a beautiful post. I love the idea of entering one door with your dad and leaving with your husband – sums up the concept of being ‘given away’ perfectly! We had our wedding pictures taken in Regents Park amongst all the tourists and I remember one little girl (about 4ish) saying ‘Mummy, it’s a princess!’ – it will stay with me forever! Beautiful! #TheThemeGame

  7. Love these photos, doorways have so much meaning to them don’t they? Your day sounds wonderful, even if there were a couple of things that weren’t quite perfect. Special memories x

  8. Like the other comments, I also love the Cinderella mention! The wishing well in the church sounds like, well a Fairytale…

  9. If it makes you feel better my hubby & I got married when I was five months preg. and although it wasn’t planned that way, it didn’t make the slightest bit of difference to us either. As you’ve said, a wedding day is all about being surrounded by the most important people in your life that you love.

    Lovely post 🙂 #PoCoLo

  10. What a lovely post. You look so beautiful 🙂 Both you and your dad are glowing in that first picture, I absolutely loved it. I loved your interpretation of the theme. A doorway to the future. Wonderful.
    #PoCoLo

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