Encouraging a reluctant reader

You all know the reading journey I’ve been taking with Monkey since he was little.  He’s a lover of books, but not the reading of them.  It’s so alien to me, an avid bookworm from the year dot.  My house has often resembled a library as I’ve tried encouraging a reluctant reader to quite frankly, read anything.  This last year we’ve seen a great improvement in his reading really.  I have to think back on where we’ve come from, rather than comparing him with other children.

The How to Train Your Dragon books that I’ve been reading to him, have started to show him where reading can take you.  That books can transport you to a different place and time, and they’ve really hit a cord with him.  He’s not confident enough to read these books for himself, but one day he will be.

Encouraging a reluctant reader

He was meant to have done a reading challenge for homework over the holidays, with him reading as many books by himself as possible.  But we abandoned that idea pretty quickly, holiday time is meant to be fun time in our book. But that didn’t mean he didn’t do any reading, in fact he was doing it without being consciously aware that it was happening.  Whether it be a trail around a National Trust property, or a word search in a Bella Italia activity sheet. There was a lot more reading going on generally without me having to force the issue.  Monkey finds his own way of doing things and I was more than happy to encourage this softer approach to his reading.

We have a lot of delaying tactics when it comes to going to bed.  I need a cup of water, I need this, that and every other thing under the sun a 7 year old boy can think of.  But last week there was a different request, one I wasn’t going to dismiss, I’ll do anything when it comes to encouraging a reluctant reader.  For the first time Monkey actually asked if he could read to himself, after I’d finished reading to him.

Of course you can Monkey, but not for too long as it’s school in the morning came my reply.  I was somewhat astonished.  He picked out some early reader, which are actually below his reading level at school and got back into bed.  It was clear that this was something he wanted to do without me being in the room, but he was worried about words he might get stuck on.  No problem.

I found his notepad and a pencil and suggested he wrote down every word he got stuck on so that we could discuss them the next day. He was happy with that solution and I left him to it.

When I went up later to check on him, he was fast asleep with his books, notepad and pencil on the floor.  I had a sneaky peek at the words and was rather impressed with his handwriting.  Two birds, one stone!

Encouraging a reluctant reader

Encouraging a reluctant reader, we talked through the tricky words the next morning.  There were some that really he should have been able to break down, some that I know he does actually know, but others we needed to talk through.  There was even a nonsense word that had got him totally stumped.  But he’d kept going and enjoyed reading.

Now this new found activity hasn’t been happening every night since, and I’m not pushing it, but I’ll be popping a few more easy reads into his book box in the hope that he’ll continue at his own pace.

It’s a start.

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I'm a Mum in my late 40′s with a 7 year old son. I had a busy life in Export Sales before my Monkey came along, but decided to become a stay at home Mum once he arrived. Now I enjoy writing my own family lifestyle and travel blog. sharing the adventures that we have as Monkey makes his journey through school.We have a cat called Brewster who makes appearances and I’m a mad Ferrari Formula 1 fan, so that expect to hear about as each season unfolds.We love reviewing toys, games and books and would love the opportunity to look at anything that fits in with our family lifestyle. We are always out and about and offering an insight on the places we visit, with a passion for nature thrown in for good measure.If you like what you read please leave me a comment, I love to hear from people, and always try to reply. Enjoy the read.

12 thoughts on “Encouraging a reluctant reader

  1. Ahh! My 9 year old is a reluctant reader. Not much fun when she has to read every night after school….It is a battle to get her to read school books but she will sometimes read in bed.
    Well done your boy! Reading and writing! He has got very neat handwriting x

  2. Ah, definitely a breakthrough and yes, very neat writing! My daughter reads a lot so I’ve yet to handle this, but with my son starting school in September, we’ll see whether I get another bookworm or a reluctant reader, it could go either way! x

  3. We don’t have a problem with reading as such (in fact he’s a bookworm), but my son is very resistant to reading things he doesn’t want to, but sometimes he misses out on good things because he won’t try them. Generally we have found that as soon as there is some sort of compulsion involved, it turns him right off, so I think you are right to approach reading in a flexible way.

  4. Oh well done to Monkey. How lovely that he wanted to read to himself. I like the idea of taking a softer approach with reading things more naturally – it sounds like it works well for Monkey. Good idea too to write down the tricky words and go over them the next day 🙂 #ssamazingachievements

  5. N’s the same, random reading when out and about (something he’s never really been that interested in) without him realising it’s really reading. We’ve not tried the how to train a dragon books, but he’s currently loving The Faraway tree series (the ones with pictures, rather than the full book) and Famous Five. Love Enid Blyton for basic stuff. Also picked up a Chris Hoy book the other day so I’m hoping he’ll like that too.

    Looks like Monkey’s keen to keep reading and practising (and his writing is really good).

    Thanks for linking up to #schooldays

  6. That’s brilliant progress for Monkey! He’s getting there in his own way and there is so much scope for reading outside of books. He’s got such neat handwriting too. #SSAmazingAchievements

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